Are You Preparing to Decide - or Avoiding the Decision?

There is a difference between taking the time to make a thoughtful business decision and continuing to research, think, and ask for opinions because you're uncomfortable committing to a decision. The goal isn't necessarily to make decisions quickly, but to recognize when additional preparation is no longer helping.

Making decisions requires thoughtful preparation, but that “preparation” can quietly turn into decision avoidance. We keep thinking, researching, asking for advice, or waiting for more information because that feels safer than making a decision without knowing exactly what will happen next.

Committing to a decision can be uncomfortable. But as long as you're still considering the decision, you can’t commit and take action. Once you decide, it becomes real. If you want to move your business forward, you have to trust that you can make a thoughtful decision with the information you have. 

When Preparation Stops Helping

What’s the difference between avoiding a decision vs. intentionally preparing for it? Intentional preparation moves you toward a decision. It’s establishing the clarity that will help you make a choice. If you’re getting stuck in research and information mode, you might be avoiding and not preparing.

Over the years, I’ve observed many business owners overthink, over-research, procrastinate, and get other opinions rather than trust that they have what they need to take action. 

I often tell my clients, “You can't think your way to clarity.” Many clients will tell me they need time to “think about it” when I talk about a concept or possibility. Off they go, working with the same information that still doesn’t lead them to an answer. So I reframe the question and we collaborate on what might be a smaller step they can commit to in the moment. 

What Are You Actually Trying to Decide?

You need to be clear on the criteria for your decision. Does it match your values and goals? Know what you're optimizing for - revenue, time, flexibility, growth, simplicity, etc. Two business owners facing the same decision might make very different choices depending on what they're optimizing for.

Some questions I pose to my clients are:

What’s the purpose of this decision? What outcome are you hoping for, and is it realistic? Does that outcome support your long-term goals? 

You’re Not Going to Eliminate the Uncertainty

I’ve also seen clients spin in circles about the “what ifs.” They’re trying to account for every possible outcome before they make the decision - and of course, they can’t. My grad school professors made us repeat the mantra, “ambiguity is my friend,” which helped us get used to making decisions based on the available data. 

One thing we have to come to terms with as small business owners is that nothing is guaranteed. This can lead to thinking we need more information when what we really want is certainty. 

We often turn to others for advice. The tricky part of asking for advice is asking the right people. Asking more people can actually make the decision more complicated. Each person will answer based on their own businesses, perspectives, and experience, not necessarily based on what’s best for you. And too many viewpoints can be overwhelming. 

The Goal Isn’t to Decide Faster

I see people rush to decide, putting unnecessary pressure on themselves. But it is important to recognize when additional preparation is no longer helping or adding anything. You don’t have to speed through decision making, but you do have to be aware of when it’s time to take action.

Consider how reversible the decision actually is. As I mentioned in a previous blog, Learning to Trust Yourself, a decision isn’t a tattoo. Most decisions can be undone. You can break your big decisions into smaller ones if necessary when the whole path feels overwhelming. 

At some point, you have enough information and have to use your judgment. Self-trust isn't believing all your decisions will go well. It's trusting that you can collect the most helpful information, make a thoughtful decision, and handle whatever happens. 

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